What is your best trait in your relationship?

I think if I asked my boyfriend this question about me, he would likely say how nice I am or how giving I am.  He’s said those things before and also said I’m just, ‘so nice’.  Hmph (too nice, perhaps?).  

Although I can say I’m a pretty nice person, I don’t feel like I’m that nice; I mean, we all have our negative qualities, right?   But, then again, we are almost always our toughest critic.

I think it’s hard to think about what my best trait in my relationship is as it feels weird honing up to it and putting it out there so…publicly.  And then there’s the part where maybe he doesn’t feel that way and reads this and goes, ‘Uhhh, backspace, delete, rewind!‘.  Additionally, it really depends on the person you are with as sometimes someone will bring out a trait in you that is so good that you didn’t have before or couldn’t have before.

I think my best quality is that I give a lot of love.  I try my best to make my partner feel loved and that goes in various ways; physical affection, doing something nice for them, sending sweet texts or giving them their space to do their own thing too.  

I think I’ll stop there because this feels weird writing it out!  I can’t help it, you guys, it’s a little awkward putting this out there.  Please don’t leave me hanging, comment below & join in on the discussion.

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